Contacting missing Forum Members

[odm]

;D ;D Hello Everyone. I have been missing a few forum members who have not posted for a while.

They are Hazel03, The Oracle, Adorabora, Tellurianna and Jakline just to name five. There are quite a few more that I wrote posts alongside and grew to really like.

I have sent them PMs to wish them well and tell them I miss them and look forward to seeing them post again soon.

Some of the people I have mentioned have not posted for some while..

What I think we should all do is to remember which forum friends we have not seen posting for a while and check the members list. If you click on their name you can see when they last posted.

Why not send them a little Personal Message to ask how they are and let them know how much we miss them. I have done that and hope they will come back and post soon.

We have a lovely forum everybody but we do not have all our members posting. It is easy to lose track of people and it is important to let them know that we are all one big gang and not one small cliche. We love ALL the Fakers.

So please check on your favourite people or even one or two that have not posted in a while and let them know that you are looking out for them and wondering how they are. I shall continue to post Pms to those I have missed. I have another batch to do later.


We are a strong Fanbase. Lets keep it that way and send out our regards to our fellow fakers and encourage them back to the Forum.

[Admin]

Nice idea ODM, keep up the good work.

[battybetty]

HI Izzy. I had been feeling tha same way about a few missing in action members. Adorabora and smoif were two of them. I had the same thought myself. I actually went over to BBGF to find khandi girl and chatted to her under her new username of KG.

Smoif was another who had not posted for a long time and hadn't even logged on. I was a little worried about her TBH, she mentioned herself on this forum that she suffers with depression.
Then I was delighted to spot her logged on just the other evening. I immediately sent her a pm but I didnt want her too feel pressured so I told her not to worry about replying.
She was logged on for a while after I sent the message but sadly she never opened my pm before she logged off again. Perhaps she wasn't ready for that for whatever reason.
Im a bit sad that she didnt at least see my message to her but I take it as a positive sign that she had visited and hopefully means she will come back again soon.
It also occurs to me that we should also be aware that people my have decided to stay away for reasons of their own and that we should be mindful of respecting that too.

Just thought you may like to know about smoif, as I don't think many other people were on-line at the time.

[odm]

battybetty said:

HI Izzy. I had been feeling tha same way about a few missing in action members. Adorabora and smoif were two of them. I had the same thought myself. I actually went over to BBGF to find khandi girl and chatted to her under her new username of KG.

Smoif was another who had not posted for a long time and hadn't even logged on. I was a little worried about her TBH, she mentioned herself on this forum that she suffers with depression.
Then I was delighted to spot her logged on just the other evening. I immediately sent her a pm but I didnt want her too feel pressured so I told her not to worry about replying.
She was logged on for a while after I sent the message but sadly she never opened my pm before she logged off again. Perhaps she wasn't ready for that for whatever reason.
Im a bit sad that she didnt at least see my message to her but I take it as a positive sign that she had visited and hopefully means she will come back again soon.
It also occurs to me that we should also be aware that people my have decided to stay away for reasons of their own and that we should be mindful of respecting that too.

Just thought you may like to know about smoif, as I don't think many other people were on-line at the time.

;D Hello Maria, Im back now..just about to watch the results of x-factor and chill for half hour .. Yes I agree with what you are saying and I hardly expect to have any of my Pms answered but we have grown a natural policy as Fakers somehow to care for one another and I think I would hope that any Pms we sent were just a show of friendship. You are still right as well though and it could be that those who are not here anymore dont want to be. A PM though should not make them cross if it is merely to say, hi how are you, hope you are doing fine, and even more particularly if they are to people you posted with often and had good forum friendlies with.

I do recall regarding smoif that I did her cards for her. I am not sure they were the jolliest reading from the pack either.. I was going to PM her also but noticed she had been on recently. I am truly glad that this has occurred to you too though.
If I hear from anyone I will make a point of posting on this thread.

At the end of the day if PMs are ignored there will be a reason no doubt, but I still do miss certain members and would like them to know personally that I wish them well. If they come back to the forum all is good, but if not, at least I let them know what a pleasure it has been to have shared the summer with them.

Anyway..hugs to you Maria..your one of the best.

[battybetty]

I feel the same as you Izzy.
When we dont see someone we shared all that camaraderie and fun with during BB and afterwards, its feels a bit like losing touch with a family member.
Its at lease reassuring to know if they're doing ok and good to feel that they at least will know we're still thinking of them.

[odm]

odm said:

;D ;D Hello Everyone. I have been missing a few forum members who have not posted for a while.

They are Hazel03, The Oracle, Adorabora, Tellurianna and Jakline just to name five. There are quite a few more that I wrote posts alongside and grew to really like.

I have sent them PMs to wish them well and tell them I miss them and look forward to seeing them post again soon.

Some of the people I have mentioned have not posted for some while..

What I think we should all do is to remember which forum friends we have not seen posting for a while and check the members list. If you click on their name you can see when they last posted.

Why not send them a little Personal Message to ask how they are and let them know how much we miss them. I have done that and hope they will come back and post soon.

We have a lovely forum everybody but we do not have all our members posting. It is easy to lose track of people and it is important to let them know that we are all one big gang and not one small cliche. We love ALL the Fakers.

So please check on your favourite people or even one or two that have not posted in a while and let them know that you are looking out for them and wondering how they are. I shall continue to post Pms to those I have missed. I have another batch to do later.


We are a strong Fanbase. Lets keep it that way and send out our regards to our fellow fakers and encourage them back to the Forum.

:(No news yet from any of the PMS...still positive thinkng

[ravengirl]

im still about just haven't read much about ash lately

[odm]

;D Hello Ravengirl, lovely to see you and also hello to Tellurianna who popped by to say she is fine to...

There has been some really interesting news about Ais so hopefully some of our other friends will pop in and read the good news

Lovely to see you Ravengirl and Tell.

[mandala]

hi mandala here

i come on the site and read all the posts i find this site invaluable sorry dont post often but i am still here and thank you all for the info ash seems to be moving on and hopefully moving up now she has changed promoters

[Harvestgoddess]

;D Hi mandala