Last night didn’t go to plan, it was horrible

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iluvwillmellor said:

Thanks everyone ;D

Yes, half of you sound like my mum lol, My mum said I said to her that she going to ground me untill I am 30 lol my mum said I was in a right state last night, lol.

I will never, ever let any guy buy me a drink again, no matter how nice and sweet they are or seem. I cant trust guys any more now, I think my confidence might have been knocked as well.

Anyway peeps, Ash looked really happy and lovely, she looked the bees knees ;D

xxxx

We aren't all bad you know.
At least you are safe and sound. If a bloke ever offers to buy a drink for you again go to the bar with him and keep your eyes peeled. Don't let one bad experience spoil things for you.

[karenab]

Sorry, honey. But another mum talk coming up! Thank god you were with your friend. I had my heart in my mouth as I was reading your post-it could have turned out so much worse!
I have been drunk more times than youve had hot dinners, so I'm no angel. But I am quite a bit older!!!! And there werent things like date rape drugs around when I was young. And now I am an OLD drunk, I am a bit more worldly wise anyway!!
I have no right to lecture you, thats the last thing ANY of us want to do. Just please be careful. Watch your drink being poured, then dont let it out of your sight. And dont ever split up from the friend you go out with.

Lecture over! You didnt let anyone down, dont be daft!! As has been said, its highly unlikely you would have been able to talk to her anyway. But you saw her in the flesh!!

[kama]

Hey ((((ILWM)))) glad you got home safe. Thank you for your honesty and please take care of your precious self (- sorry to be another one who sounds like your mum!!!) BIG HUG kama XXX

[odm]

;D ;D Hello ILWM..Im a bit late logging in and I have to log out soon to as I have to go to work.

Well what an ole worrypots you are!! You know what you might consider is that these nightclubs want to fill up to get maximum takings for the night. Thats what they do in the places I work in. They would have advertised Ais as being on at 9 to get people to do exactly the same as yourself, i.e., get there much early than needs be to drink their drinks. Most nightclubs and bars do stuff like that, cheeky monkeys..they even put the bladdy heating on so people get overthirsty to get their beer takings up. Anyway, they probably knew that the longer they kept Ais from appearing the more people would likely be gathered.

As for the chap that took the liberty of buying you a drink, years ago, a friend of mine actually saw a guy spike her drink. he put something in it and she turned to me and said so. We left the place soon after. You are only a young girl and these guys are just chancers, if I had been there I would have kicked them in the danglies messing with our faker girl like that (the little SH!T!!)...as long as you are safe and sound that is what matters most and I can see from all the posts other fakers felt that way before I even logged in.

You will get another opportunity to see Ais..dont you worry. It sounds like she was looking good. And also it is not at all a surprise that she was kept away from most of the audience. With all these nightclubs they use the tactics 'sprat to catch a mackerel'..if you did,nt win the competition, you saw as much as aisleyne as you were going to be allowed...and you have nothing to upset yourself over. Interesting what she was saying about Pete and Nikki. I think you have remembered quite a lot really and you also have to remember you are only a young girl as is your mate.
Anyone of your age would go out and have a good time...you were dead excited anyway and I expect all that beaming must have made you look so lovely the blokeys could,nt stay away... you are funny....and NO you have not let anyone down. Get another mobile if I were you. You could take that into cash converters and maybe do a part exchange or something. Obviously that is up to you, but you might get a reasonable deal in CC if you have one where you live??

Meanwhile, welcome home to the forum as Rem said, we all love ya and you got to enjoy yourself when you are young. You and your friend have still come back with an account of the evening even with the extras so no worries and big hugs from everyone......

[battybetty]

iluvwillmellor said:

Thanks everyone ;D

Yes, half of you sound like my mum lol, My mum said I said to her that she going to ground me untill I am 30 lol my mum said I was in a right state last night, lol.

I will never, ever let any guy buy me a drink again, no matter how nice and sweet they are or seem. I cant trust guys any more now, I think my confidence might have been knocked as well.

Anyway peeps, Ash looked really happy and lovely, she looked the bees knees ;D

xxxx

LOL I think Id get on like a house on fire with your mum. I did an affectionate and at the same time smiled a wry smile at your little story. Sounds like your mum loves you loads ILWM, as do we allyou're a total sweetheart and being young certainly isn't a sin, so don't be fretting.

Oh the joys and pitfalls of being 19 years old... oh the relief I sometimes feel at only having sons to worry over.

Robbies right, all that matters is that your home and safe. At 19, everthing is a learning experience, so just chalk this one up on lifes blackboard and keep that cute little chin of yours held up high. You still have some good memories to treasure and it sounds like it was a good night for Ais. So all's well in the world. xxx

[iluvwillmellor]

Awwwwwwww everyone on here is so sweet ;D

Thank you very much for what all of you said, and you are all right, I am young, and I dont think I am adult yet, I still have a lot to learn innit. Last night has knocked my confidence a bit, next time I go out (which wont be for a long time lol) I will be extra carefully, and I will not let any guy buy me a drink. I know I will find it so hard to ever trust a guy again. My m8 was fab with me last night, and if she hadnt of been there, I would of gone back to that guys house. But I am trying not to think about that, but the good things that happend last night, I wish all of you could of seen Ash ;D she looked sooooo happy and gawjuz, she laughed when that women asked her to matty her ;D that was funny, the best bit of last night was when she waved at everyone and then looked in my direction ;D She also looked in my direction when I wolf whistled at her lol bless her, she was lovely, and so friendly. She is off the hook ;D


xxx

[zzenzero]

iluvwillmellor, you were brilliant to go!
As you can see, everyone here is proud of you.
Quite rightly you have been applauded for your efforts.

I'd already made a post about the gig on the other Northampton Cafe thread[under news] before I read this thread.I was looking for a report and only just found this one.So I rang the manager of the cafe earlier this evening to see how Ash did.
Well done again...you actually walked the talk!

Now let's see a coach trip organised for Newbury to get those attendance figures up!

[karenab]

ILWM, sweetheart - if its made you think, thats what its all about! Chalk it up to experience. No-one thinks you should never go out again, or never let anyone buy you a drink. But next time, just be a bit more aware! Remember how you felt this morning.

You know what, I'm a 48 year old version of you (believe me, you dont feel any different or any more mature at this age!). I drink too fast, and also I get MUCH drunker,quicker, when I'm emotional. You'd been hyped up about seeing Ais for ages. And its very flattering to be chatted up. You just got carried away with the evening.

Dont let it knock your confidence. You were chatted up by THREE blokes!! Sounds like a good evening to me

Just make sure you stick with your mate and you go home with her, and watch your drinks at all times!

And the 31 year old is too old, IMO - just reject his calls!

[missholistic]

I am really proud of you and your friend for having realised that you were both drunk and for sobering up. There are some weird people around today and you have to be very careful. Thank you for letting us know about Aisleyne. You have not let yourself down, far from it. Your mum must be really proud of you. Please stay safe and it seems like you have a very good friend who looked after you. I really hope that you get to meet Aisleyne and if you do I reckon she would be really pleased that you are a true fan. Take care. XX

[Admin]

Thank god you got home safe and sound, your mate is a really good friend to look after you like that. Dont be fretting, you didnt let anyone down.

It's easy to get carried away, my daughter is the same age as you and I have her ears bent going on about not taking drinks from anyone.

You have let us share in your expierence by postting here and I thank you for that.

Now, dont be taking drinks from strange men again, ya hear me